Saturday, August 14, 2010

Make way for the Groomzilla

I never thought those words would come out of my mouth but here they are, Bryan has become a Groomzilla! I guess it was bound to happen since he was so preoccupied with his trip to Thailand for his cousins wedding, that he could care less about our wedding, now he is freaking out that his family has not booked their rooms probably because he has still not mailed out their save the dates (maybe it's because he failed to get their addresses 4 months ago when I told him to). He calls me at work freaking out about some minor detail, when I tell him I'm working and can't discuss it, he gets mad and hangs up on me....what has happened to my even-keeled groom? I show him pictures for ideas and he thinks they are awful because he focuses on some insignificant detail that I wasn't even showing him...what am I going to to do? One website on how to deal with groomzillas says to take them to a bridal fair and that should shock them into reality, but I don't even want to go to one of those, so that is out of the question. Invitations are becoming impossible. I would just order them without his input, but I know what that would result in. He thinks the bridesmaid dresses I like look like middle school dresses, I don't know where he comes up with these thoughts..And now he wants to hire a different photographer, the one from his cousins wedding, Alex Rapada. Bryan says he'll pay for him, which will mean paying for: his flight, room, and photos, but he keeps forgetting he is a full-time student who has yet found a job...perplexing...

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